Top 5

1. DON'T ever dumb yourself down, but also know the difference between being prideful/arrogant and being proud of Self.
2. Know that a girl with a mouthpiece is better than none at ALL. I'd rather speak my mind on SOMETHING than have nothing to bring to the table. 
3. Have a backbone, especially in relationships.
4. Nothing is ever for certain or has to be taken the way its presented to you. Perception is (sometimes) deception, so build your own world and you'll never have to succumb to anyone else's standards!! I worked at a retail shop selling streetwear & sneakers surrounded by men all day, if you hold your own, carry yourself in a way that demands respect, you'll get it.
5. Women with GOALS are the most attractive females.