Advice from Oprah..

• If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
• If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
• Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
• Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
• Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
• Slower is better.
• Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
• If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.“
• A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
• Don’t settle.
• If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
• Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
• The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
• Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
• Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
• Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
• If something bothers you, speak up.
• Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
• You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
• Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or has a better job .
• Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
• Never let a man define who you are.
• Never borrow someone else’s man.
• If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you again.
• A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
• All men are NOT dogs.
• You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is a two way street.
• You need time to heal between relationships …there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
• You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
• Dating is fun..even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
• Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.